[RPD]FatalS_T_A_R_S Posted October 31, 2009 Report Posted October 31, 2009 hey so me and my ex-fiance broke up about 1 1/2 months ago and have had full custody of my daughter since. still going through court and all. but i have been missing the shit out of her latly and cant figure out y?!?! how long is it suppossed to take to forget. Quote
HippieChik Posted October 31, 2009 Report Posted October 31, 2009 Double your time together...that's how long it'll take. Quote
[SoW] Lucky_Saint- Posted October 31, 2009 Report Posted October 31, 2009 yea bro its not an over night thing specially considering you had a kid with her. You even need someone to talk to my phones available day and night just not when im somwhere haunted like i was last night Quote
GOAT Posted October 31, 2009 Report Posted October 31, 2009 FatalS_T_A_R_S ]hey so me and my ex-fiance broke up about 1 1/2 months ago and have had full custody of my daughter since. still going through court and all. but i have been missing the shit out of her latly and cant figure out y?!?! how long is it suppossed to take to forget. Sorry brother, if you were around here I'd take you to the local strip club.. won't make you forget though. I don't thing you ever actually forget.. you just learn to live with it, but a night at the club does help for one night at least. Quote
hitman198309 Posted October 31, 2009 Report Posted October 31, 2009 Goat ]FatalS_T_A_R_S ]hey so me and my ex-fiance broke up about 1 1/2 months ago and have had full custody of my daughter since. still going through court and all. but i have been missing the shit out of her latly and cant figure out y?!?! how long is it suppossed to take to forget. Sorry brother, if you were around here I'd take you to the local strip club.. won't make you forget though. I don't thing you ever actually forget.. you just learn to live with it, but a night at the club does help for one night at least. I have to agree with Goat on this. You never forget you learn to live with it. Do everything you can to keep yourself busy. When your busy your mind is usually not thinking about her. I am in the same boat as you! I was with my ex-fiance for 6 years. We split up in febuary 09 and still to this day she pops up in my mind and I cant seem to get her out for a bit. I think the biggest problem for me is I have a daughter with my ex as well so I have to deal with her on a daily basis. You never really get over it you just deal with it. Hope everything goes well for you! Quote
[SoW] Lucky_Saint- Posted October 31, 2009 Report Posted October 31, 2009 yea strip joints a good idea but i had a bad experience once we took my buddy for his 19th bday and his mom was working needless to say it made shit AWKWARD Quote
Nemesis Posted November 1, 2009 Report Posted November 1, 2009 LuckyS_T_A_R_S ]yea strip joints a good idea but i had a bad experience once we took my buddy for his 19th bday and his mom was working needless to say it made shit AWKWARD It may have been awkward, but you did get that lap dance, right? Quote
[RPD]FatalS_T_A_R_S Posted November 1, 2009 Author Report Posted November 1, 2009 hitman198309 ] Goat ]FatalS_T_A_R_S ]hey so me and my ex-fiance broke up about 1 1/2 months ago and have had full custody of my daughter since. still going through court and all. but i have been missing the shit out of her latly and cant figure out y?!?! how long is it suppossed to take to forget. Sorry brother, if you were around here I'd take you to the local strip club.. won't make you forget though. I don't thing you ever actually forget.. you just learn to live with it, but a night at the club does help for one night at least. I have to agree with Goat on this. You never forget you learn to live with it. Do everything you can to keep yourself busy. When your busy your mind is usually not thinking about her. I am in the same boat as you! I was with my ex-fiance for 6 years. We split up in febuary 09 and still to this day she pops up in my mind and I cant seem to get her out for a bit. I think the biggest problem for me is I have a daughter with my ex as well so I have to deal with her on a daily basis. You never really get over it you just deal with it. Hope everything goes well for you! First of all LOL lucky that was hilarious... and yeah it sucks cause i have a daughter with her and im the one who broke it off so i keep getting these feeling of maybe i did the wrong thing or something i dodnt know :( Quote
HippieChik Posted November 1, 2009 Report Posted November 1, 2009 FatalS_T_A_R_S ]...so i keep getting these feeling of maybe i did the wrong thing or something i dodnt know :( That's normal. For whatever reason, we forget all the bad things and reasons why we broke up and remember only the good things. With any loss, you'll go through all the stages of grief. Stay strong. http://nmha.org/go/information/get-info/coping-with-separation-and-divorce Quote
[RPD]FatalS_T_A_R_S Posted November 1, 2009 Author Report Posted November 1, 2009 thanks hippie that was helpful and i am sharing with my family... yall lol Quote
[SoW] Lucky_Saint- Posted November 1, 2009 Report Posted November 1, 2009 Nemesis ]LuckyS_T_A_R_S ]yea strip joints a good idea but i had a bad experience once we took my buddy for his 19th bday and his mom was working needless to say it made shit AWKWARD It may have been awkward, but you did get that lap dance, right? yea but not from her thank god i dont think i could ever look her in the face after that FatalS_T_A_R_S ]hitman198309 ] Goat ]FatalS_T_A_R_S ]hey so me and my ex-fiance broke up about 1 1/2 months ago and have had full custody of my daughter since. still going through court and all. but i have been missing the shit out of her latly and cant figure out y?!?! how long is it suppossed to take to forget. Sorry brother, if you were around here I'd take you to the local strip club.. won't make you forget though. I don't thing you ever actually forget.. you just learn to live with it, but a night at the club does help for one night at least. I have to agree with Goat on this. You never forget you learn to live with it. Do everything you can to keep yourself busy. When your busy your mind is usually not thinking about her. I am in the same boat as you! I was with my ex-fiance for 6 years. We split up in febuary 09 and still to this day she pops up in my mind and I cant seem to get her out for a bit. I think the biggest problem for me is I have a daughter with my ex as well so I have to deal with her on a daily basis. You never really get over it you just deal with it. Hope everything goes well for you! First of all LOL lucky that was hilarious... and yeah it sucks cause i have a daughter with her and im the one who broke it off so i keep getting these feeling of maybe i did the wrong thing or something i dodnt know :( stay strong brother Quote
lX-OSCEOLA-Xl Posted November 1, 2009 Report Posted November 1, 2009 LuckyS_T_A_R_S ]yea strip joints a good idea but i had a bad experience once we took my buddy for his 19th bday and his mom was working needless to say it made shit AWKWARD thats great Quote
hitman198309 Posted November 1, 2009 Report Posted November 1, 2009 Stay strong you broke up with her for a reason! Quote
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