Damn guys, that sucks. I have been married for 5 years and still don't have that problem. Feel for y'all. As for Valentines, I just give the wife the credit card and let her get what she wants. That way you don't mess up.
I had the Atari, gave it away though. I still have a Nintendo, a Super Nintendo, and the Original Playstation. As for games I have no clue what I have in storage. Metroid was the shit.