i agree totally...I feel that if you want to play "wreckless", sloppy, and respawn...go play Halo. I'm so bored of this game already because of the continual respawns. I tried to interest myself by setting personal goals (as I've completed almost all the challenges twice over)...but most of the time I sign on just because SHO is on...then play half assed unless I'm needed or it is set to hardcore/search and destroy. I've never liked the "rambo" maps or game types in any game, and I feel annoyed when this game almost encourages it. For instance, Headquarters mode...where its just run willy nilly to the target blasting.
Anyway...that is just my humble opinion, thanks for reading.